Although you’ve already decided that he is “the one” and you are ready for the step that will change everything in your life, you still have to ask yourselves certain things, things that only you can give an answer to. An answer that will make your life and the life of your guy much easier and pleasant.
Think carefully are you ready for the big step
Of course, love conquers all and you want to be with the man that you love, but love makes us neglect everything else. The fact that we are madly in love makes us overlook the facts that will be of the utmost importance later on. Although marriage is risky, why not make it less risky and be prepared mentally, physically and even financially.
Learn to cook
You know the old saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. Well, it’s the honest truth no matter how much they deny it. Although I’m not really a master in the kitchen, I’ve learnt a lot by watching my parents and recently applied these things with my man. Although he loved me before I prepared a couple of meals, he looks at me in a different way. Somehow, there is more respect and there is a certain look present that says more than “I love you”. That being said, my view on him also changed and we feel like we felt at the beginning of our relationship. To cut to the chase, learn to cook – it will be worth more than you think.
Talk about everything
There are no secrets between two people in love. Along with love, respect and trust are the key to everything. When you’re still in a relationship, talk about everything, go through every possible subject that you want to know about your better half. But don’t forget that you have to be honest to him. When everything is said, you can be at peace and enter marriage knowing that the person you love will be there until death does you part.
Be sure that you love yourself
Loving someone and being with him is one the most important decisions you are going to make in your life. The most important up to that moment. That is why you have to make sure that you love yourself in order for you to love others. If you love yourself enough than you’ll be able to share this with someone and nothing in this world will be hard.